Go back and look at the video by the ford tech that I gave you the link for Post #7
At the 6:08 mark you will see he is pointing to the DG/YE wire directly to the left of his finger in the other connector you will see a solid RED wire. Use a jumper (I used a thick paper clip) and jumper the red wire to the DG/YE wire. The only time that the jumper will have power is when the key is in the run position. All that is being done is the contacts for the fuel pump relay are being jumped.
Make sure that all connectors are connected back to the fuse box
Again there will be no power going to the fuel pump when the key if off so no worry