I read all the posts and looked closely at your pictures. It appears to me that before you spend any more money on bigger better or anything else, you need to adjust the hitch for your new vehicle. Your problem looks to me as a misadjusted weight distributing hitch. The setup for your Dad's vehicle is not the same for yours. You will have to take apart the hitch head and reset everything for your truck. If you want to use it for your Dad's truck you will need to get a different hitch and set it up right for your Expy. I bet the other Receiver is several inches higher than your Expy. Look to see what hitch it is, then look up the install instructions online and reset the hitch for your truck. I bet it will be just fine after that. It can be a pain, because you will need to reset the head so it is correct. First check is level the trailer on a flat surface, with both ends of the trailer frame equal height from the ground at each end. Then measure from the ground to the top of the hitch itself, the round bit on the end where the ball goes. Then with the hitch head in the back of the Expy measure from the ground to the top of the ball. If the difference between these 2 measurements is more than about 1/2 inch either lower or higher, take the head apart and reset till the ball is equal to the height of the trailer hitch itself. The installation directions from the manufacturer will be a great help. If you need a different hitch look on Amazon. You will go stupid trying to decide which one to buy, I use a Fastway E2 600/6000 because I have a smaller trailer with less than 500 lbs tongue weight and trailer max GVW is 5,500 lbs. Don't buy a more heavily rated hitch than what your trailer calls for. a 10K WDH on a 5K TT will mean it rides hard. You will get all you ever wanted to know about hitches on U-tube. Lots of help for you for free. Adjusting a hitch is not rocket science, with the right tools and patience you can do it yourself. Most people have to adjust things several times to get it all dialed in. 1 last comment, Cardinal rule, hitch weight should be NO LESS than 10% total weigh and NO MORE than 15% of the total weight of the trailer itself. Don't GUESS, this is one time when a SWAG is not good enough.