Working as designed, IMO. Lots of miles dragging a TT on mine from new. That temp indication just appears in heat soak/high demand situations. Spirited driving will do it in certain ambient temps as well. Even when it pops up, I've pulled a long grade out west (I probably tow faster than I should) and in 8th gear in tow mode, it rarely stays very long even if you're still in the throttle with turbos spooled in my experience, bone stock max, using tow mode always...
That's great fuel mileage while towing! I usually got about 7 or 7.5 if able to run 93 or higher, not possible out west.