What also gets my goat is some people rationalize things or try to act like they're not being conceited or arrogant when they do things that obviously are. There are times when I Am A pompous ass. Times when I am arrogant and conceited or too boastful or proud for my own good and I will openly and gladly admit that. I'm aware of most of my character flaws got it. I'm just totally okay with them. Many other people do things and then try to act like what they do is not for those certain selfish or self-important reasons. I am straightforward honest and blunt about everything. As a matter of fact a long-term friend of mine who is about 35 years my senior, said a while back that that's one of the things she likes about me. You always know where you stand with me and I don't sugarcoat it. If someone wants a new car oh, they should buy a new car. The reason is because they want it or they like it. They don't need to rationalize it and justify it to anyone. Just don't try to act like it's a good deal and spin things like media does.