First a little update. We have documented a small fuel economy increase over the last 4 fills. This truck is used 90% highway and 10% city so the mechanical efficiency has a relatively large impact on fuel economy. 1.4 mpg isn't much but it is about 8% so no complaints.
Parts: 10 feet of 14 gauge wire, 50 amp relay (rating isn't important, just more than 30 amps), 30 amp inline fuse, toggle switch. assorted connectors.
Simple installation. Remove fuse, wire 2 ISULATED female spade connectors into fuse location and connect to relay with the 30 amp fuse on the power side. Please note the relay is just a switch, not a power supply. Run a wire through a grommet into the truck. I located my switch on the right side of the snap off panel that contains the 4X4 switch. Connect relay wire to one side of the toggle and SWITCHED 12 volts to the other. NOTE: if your relay is mounted on a body panel that is grounded, it should now work. If it is mounted on plastic somewhere, a ground wire is needed. That is one of those don't ask lessons.
If you need A4WD, switch on, otherwise switch off. No way to disconnect front diff. Yet. Manual hubs would be nice.