@Eightiesrock80 I have 150,000 on my 04 and no issues with the starter. I have never had any hard-starting situations where I would have cranked it alot and got it hot. I think that is what wears them out faster. The only time I cranked it alot was after I replaced my timing and oil pump, and was priming the oil system. I cranked it with the crankshaft sensor unhooked until the oil pressure popped up. I heard replacing the starter isn't easy because one of the bolts is hard to access.
I remember your post about how you wired up a replaceable fuel relay but can you remind me how you did that. Do you have any photos? Its on my list for 2023 to replace that before it leaves me somewhere. Thanks.