My bad, must have read the meter wrong. continuity on 87 and open on 87a. This it the test I did; I had continuity with and without 86 connected.
Place the relay you need to test close to the Vehicle's Battery (you'll need Battery power and ground for this test).
Using a jumper wire with alligator clips, connect terminal 85 of the Relay to the Battery's Ground Terminal
The photos in the image viewer are an exact representation of what goes where.
If you don't have such a jumper wire (with alligator clips), you can run down to your local Radio Shack (even WalMart) and buy some and make your own jumper wire.
Activate the Relay by connecting male spade terminal 86 to the Battery's Positive Terminal.
It's normal to hear a small clicking from the Relay when this connection is made.
With your Multimeter in Ohms mode: touch terminals 30 and 87 with the Multimeter leads (as seen in the photo).
It doesn't matter which color lead goes where, since the polarity does not matter for this test.
You may need a helper for this operation, unless your Multimeter leads have alligator clips on the end of the leads.
Once the last connection is made, your Multimeter should show continuity. If it doesn't show continuity, recheck all your connections and retest.
Remove and reconnect the jumper wire to terminal 86 several times, as you eye-ball the Multimeter.
When the jumper wire IS NOT connected to power, the Multimeter should show NO CONTINUITY.
When the jumper wire is connected to power, the Multimeter should show continuity.