5W20 syn-blend, is the Ford industry standard. Why are you searching for 5w30? Dexos is also syn blend, made/approved to to GM spec. Don't mess around with a new engine. Your Oil life monitor, is just a guide. Dealers hate giving the "free" oil changes. They want you to come back when other things are needed, like inspections or tire rotation. I encountered the same thing at the Lincoln dealer. I was at 6 months, with break in oil and it still wasn't ready. They actually argued with me about it. I insisted and they pulled it the back. I walked around to see into shop. I never saw them changing the oil. They told me they don't give receipts, with the free oil changes, that is was "in the computer". I think they scammed me and did nothing. I then went out and bought the oil and filter and did myself. My father had the same issue with his oil change on his Toyota. They told him, it wasn't needed. That made me wonder if special "break in" oil is used. I have been using full synthetic and change mine once a year. I own 3 vehicles and none get driven more than 4,000mi.
5w-30 is what the Ecoboost uses.