Thank you all for your replies. I've been out of town and just now getting back to the car.
It may have just been a coincidence that the compressor kicked on when i was adding the freon, not sure. Today, after sitting the w/e the compressor kicked on for about 2 secs, went off, came back on a few seconds later and ran for at least 30 seconds, went off and stayed off.
I hooked up the gauges and the static readings were the same on both sides and matched the 88 air temp. I hooked up another can of freon to test the theory above and nothing. After a few minutes it kicked on, low side never went below 50 and high side was around 200. I never saw any freon going thru the glass on the gauge and the can was sitting upright.
So what all has to happen to make the compressor kick on? Is there a way for me to do that manually or does the above info point to the problem or do I really want to manually run at this point?
I replaced all the A/C parts under the hood about 4 years ago and it's been perfect until now.