Hi SunnySunshine:
Yep, SF sure is a dense area w/ narrow streets and steep hills. We did a couple of construction jobs up there and it was fun to be there for those two, 3-week long jobs. One was on Geary Blvd and the other on 3rd Street.
If your RH side-view mirror was damaged at purchase, Ford should have replaced the entire mirror assembly and its wire harness too. It almost sounds like Ford has done everything in their power to side-step their responsibilities, in this matter. Makes absolutely NO SENSE to me! Seems they are willing to eat $10K or eat a total car loss, rather than just fixing this mirror correctly, in the first place. Geeese! Get it together Ford!
It is also great that you (or your dad) are ABLE to negotiate with Ford on your problem and buy-back terms. I was thinking the 2 Ford choices were accept 'one or the other' from Ford or it is down the highway for you. In your position, if I loved the 2024 car like you do, I would ask Ford to replace your 2024 Expy w/ another 2024 Ford Expedition Platinum Max exactly as yours is now equipped now, with NO money changing hands either way. I know that 2 months ago when we were looking, there was an abundance of 2024's everywhere, at every dealer.
I am hoping it goes good for you! I feel pretty certain that you will come out well, in the end, because you have done your documentation and done your homework prior to asking for the Ford buy-back. Plus, you can express your facts and desires well without becoming angry. I think that's the key. Be stern but be courteous and kind to all concerned parties. In the end, to Ford, this is just another very minor tic in the huge, big picture of the Ford Empire. Just make your 'Ford case handler' your friend and ally by asking for his professional help, that he knows so well how to make that happen, in this case. He'll love your confidence in his abilities to make this all happen, I'm pretty certain. Keep us all posted here. It's of great interest from a "First-Hand" person's experience here. Best of luck and success, Lance