Added HP and torque you won’t feel, and if you do it’s probably placebo. The car is plenty quick as is and as someone mentioned, get it tuned for $600 or whatever and you’ll have 450-500hp.
There’s also the Special Edition. It’s pretty much the same as the Stealth but lacking blacked out everything (you do get the black 22’s. They offer a discount for it as well so you get all the 302a features cheaper than what you’d pay if you went with a regular limited 302a (which is pretty much a fully loaded Limited). Plus it includes the heavy duty tow package standard.
You can also find the medium stone interior (can’t do that with Stealth) which is what I wanted as my number one priority was I didn’t want black interior.
Someone on this forum told me about this not so well known package and I went out and found a used 2019 Special Edition and grabbed it up.
But, the lighter color interior on the Platinum looks a lot better than the Limiteds medium stone, I just wasn’t willing to shell out that much more for some additional features that I didn’t really value.
Overall, I have zero regrets not getting a platinum and am going in tomorrow to get a quote for a chrome delete to pretty much make my car look like a Stealth but with the lighter interior color.
I think for you and your wife, the color / leather / overall look is probably something to consider more than the 25hp and noise canceling. Get a Limited 302a, 303a (stealth), Special Edition or King Ranch and you’ll get nearly all the platinum features and potentially save a few bucks.