Yes tires are like shoes and quite subjective due to a lot of people never experiencing more than about 2 sets of tires after the factory ones on a given vehicle but like shoes if 8 people out of 10 on the same platform say they are trash or great in whatever aspect, it's likely a sound conclusion.
I am much less concered about treadlife than real world performance. Along with brakes, tires are literally what makes the difference in life or death maneuvers. I likely dont drive as much as a lot you, in the past 5 years I've cut WAY back...like 5-6k a year tops so it's much less of a problem if I only get 25-30k from a tire. I used to be 30k a year for awhile but even then I'd trade half the life for a tire that had amazing grip/control.
My 03 came with a fairly meaty set of General Grabber HTS60's already installed and I'm soundly impressed by them. I dont really tow and this has never left pavement since I've owned it but they're QUIET...like there is close to 0 noise from tires. If there is I cant hear it. My radio can be on a volume of 6...out of 45 and I can hear it fine on the hwy. I've yet to lose traction in rain or the 4" of snow we had last night. Drove home in the worst of it on unsalted/plowed back roads for about 9 miles. Theres essentially 0 vibration..likely from the 200k mi old driveline if anything and tracks perfectly straight.
If they're still made and I own this when they wear out they will definitely be considered. I've never had tires from them before. I have family that work in the tire business and usually just buy whatever I want given the hefty discount I generally receive. I've ran nittos, bridgestone, Michelin, Goodyear, pirelli, cooper, and I would easily rank these up near the top from all things considered, a huge one being cost. I have about 450k miles under my belt in 12 different vehicles I've owned and have a fairly decent idea on tire performance.