I got my 4.56 gears done a while back to get more towing power. Stock was 3.31 I think, and the difference is amazing. I am only running 33s now, but with 35s it will be just right.
Of course my speedo is waaaay off now, but at 55 true mph I am turning about 1900 rpm in OD. The increased mechanical advantage lets me tow the weekend warrior in OD most of the time on the freeway, where before I just turned it off.
What is your stock ratio? judging by the way mine behaved with it's "Bonneville salt flats" gearing, your rig must really struggle with those tires. Surprised you haven't broken something