I have a 19 Standard Platinum heavy tow. Absolutely must have is the 2nd row bench. Not having it would have severely impacted its utility in both hauling people and Gear. I haul HS tennis team kids, scout troop kids, family, dogs, gear! Etc. The 2nd row captains chairs basically would render the truck pointless just get a Highlander,Pilot or Explorer given they offer the same butts in seats as the Captains chair Expedition.
For me a big part of getting the Expedition was its towing capacity 9000lbs which we definitely use 2x a yr when moving our boat, it does a great job doing that. The real 4x4 and locking rear diff also important for some of our activities. I can’t go to the extra long due to city use but the Standard has been fantastic. Not going to lie we pack it to the max and run a ski box for overflow gear often.
The new 2025 split tailgate definitely a big deal for me given I had a landcruiser and know the advantages of that both structurally and gear/utility. Hope they still have that feature when I get another one.
The basic AWD Expedition value is in maximum people moving ability which case 2nd row bench and long version if thats your plan. Its basically Fords giant non-mini van - van.
If your active outdoor type and might or will tow? Just go full real deal heavy tow pack for the full truck equipment and capability