Just following up on this thread. We've had it back for a couple weeks now and they are saying it was "overfull." Whatever. So far no problems and it shifts pretty good since they changed the fluid and filters.
Regardless, I just ordered a new Limited Stealth 304a yesterday. Someone else will probably get this one and not have any problems whatsoever, it's just been bad luck for us. Got the new one at invoice and with the high trade in value still, I don't feel too bad about the whole thing (except no dvd system for the kids)
Now the waiting game for the new one!