Finally go to do a test drive yesterday! The tip and slide seats are awesome! You can have them when you pry them from my cold dead fingers! And the configurable driver's information screen lets you view transmission temperature in real time! So we're planning to go ahead an put in an order within the next week-10days.
That said, there are some definite compromises with respect to the GM trucks. The biggest one is that the cargo area is a lot smaller than the Suburban/Yukon XL. On paper it's not that much smaller, but on paper, the cargo area in our Odyssey is bigger than both. The problem is that cargo area is not as deep so there's less floor space and you're stuck trying to stack things and hoping they don't fall over the setbacks onto the heads of the little people in the third row. Second, the GM trucks have much better sightlines. Maybe it's just me, but every time I've driven the current GM trucks, I know intuitively the exact locations of all 4 corners. The rear corners are pretty easy on the Ford (since the tail lights are visible in the mirrors), but I had no idea where the front passenger corner was. (It's better than the Odyssey, but not as good as the GM trucks.) Finally, the 6.2L V8 sounds way better than the 3.5L eco boost.
Note for you in Seattle, Bickford Ford in Snohomish has a pile of Expeditions. It was worth the drive because we were able to test drive a Max with the the 3.73 rear axle. They had two Max's and a pile of short wheel base expeditions hiding in the back. We were able to see Expeditions in Silver, magnetic, stone gray, and Ruby Red.