There are two ways to go....
1. wheel with less offset, more aggressive and larger tire, 1.5 level, and removal of the front air dam and perhaps the running boards too. You could pull off the 4x4 look doing all this, but it will still be low. A passerby would probably not every know it was leveled.
2. 3/2 lift, whatever wheel, 33 or 35 tires, and air dam removed. Now you are getting somewhere.
I have the 3/2 lift and i can say that if it was a 4 or 5 id be ok with that. 3/2 is minimum and i think with only a 1.5 you will wish you had gone bigger. Its still not a very tall SUV and honestly looks stock-ish.