Ticking noise: they all tick, especially with higher mileage. Some worse than others.
With 98K miles, I would:
1. change spark plugs
2. replace coil packs
3. clean mass air flow sensor
4. oil change (which you've done). Use the recommended weight..don't use something different to try and mask the ticking noise. And DO NOT use motor flush unless it's a last ditch effort before you tear it down. Cam timing is controlled using oil pressure and the components are designed for a specific weight. This could be why it's running sluggish.
5. Change the air filter
6. Drain the transmission and change the filter. Do not flush it at the 'quick change oil place'. Just drain it...no flush.
You should be ready for another 100K (not including oil changes)
After all that, then if it's still not running correctly at least it's easier to diagnose. You need all these things anyway, even if it was running correctly. And the ticking noise? Just turn up the radio
Thanks