Did everything you want to do within the first two weeks of buying the expy.
Instead of plasti-dipping, I took it to my tint guy and had them wrap the handles, roof rack and rear chrome hatch piece in flat black - less than 200.00 dollars (I've plasti-dipped before and while a great product, the prep time with the tape ect takes forever and I ended up claying my old car because of the overspray - the 200.00 was worth it to me - it's been over a year now and the wrap looks as good as new)
Grill - ordered a color matched one from Ford and had them paint it - about the same price as was quoted to you.
Wheels - flat black Method Racing Fat Five's in 18's (getting ready to sell my OEM 20's).
Lift, I went with the Rancho adjustable springs and struts - love them but the pics are with the stock suspension as I just had that done a month ago. . .
FYI - the guys at the detail shop parked it in the Handicap spot for me to pick up - that wasn't me being "that guy". . .