I went with .052-.056" gap and 10 ft/lbs (120 in/lbs) torque since the plugs were seated firmly with just hand tightening, and I didn't want to risk stripping the threads by going too tight. Did a run around the neighborhood and on the highway it it runs like a top; seems to have a little more low-end oomph to it now. Also did the throttle body cleaning.
All said, I saved $986 over what the dealer wanted to charge me for the service. They wanted to charge ~$240 for parts that I got, from the same dealer, for ~$144. Three hours labor later, I'm good for another 100k miles!