When I bought my '08, the PO told me that if he ran stock pressures, his wife complained about the ride. Said he kept trying slightly lower pressures until the truck handled and rode well. that was on Goodyear at/s P rated tires. I got it with 33 on three tires and 31 on the other. I pumped the low one back to 33 and tried it. It runs fine, with no increase in tire temps with the lower pressures. Of course, I ride alone most of the time, with very little load in the truck (hey, I'm very tall and need the legroom). I check my tire temps with a simple laser thermometer, in multiple areas of the sidewalls and tread. I don't know how accurate that is, but the tires are never too hot to touch, including the tread. Had this truck a year and a half now, with no issues.
As far as overinflating? You're really going to have to go to a rather high pressure to get the tire to fail that way. Most tires don't blow out from high pressure; they burst because of, as mentioned by others, overheating the carcass by running too LOW a pressure.