My 99 5.4 spit plugs twice. I believe the issue was that there were only 3 turns on the thread holding the plugs into the aluminum head and the dealer didn't pay close enough attention to the requirement of specific torque settings. Later models of the 5.4 have 8 thread turns holding the plug in to the aluminum head, so they are less likely to blow, but still must be properly seated and torqued or they could cause problems.
I'm only 8K in to the life of my '12, so I haven't had to deal with it on this one yet. But you can be sure that whether I do it myself or have a dealer or shop do it, I'm going to grill them to ensure they have done MANY before and fully understand the need to use the torque wrench!