Are you getting hyper, or double speed flash? You can also install load resistors on each line. Youtube has a lot of videos on this. Some bulbs allegedly have a resistor integrated into its base. I'm surprised to hear the Limited has a special BCM over other models incase you don't want to mess with Forescan.
I hope you were able to find a bulb that was as bright or ideally brighter than an incandescent once installed in the reflector housing. Or a bulb that have a noticeable difference between low output park mode and higher output flash mode. I went thru too many myself and was disappointed with results.