Max does not come with trailer tow or 3.73 standard. You need to option the trailer tow package to get the 3.73. Some other packages for 2019 bundle a couple things and one might be the tow pack and gears..... I'm not 100% certain on all the 19's.
I've seen a few places on the forms here were folks say the 2019 Max does not come w/ 3.73 standard. That is most certainly true for the 2019 Expedition 4x2 Max, but I'm not so sure that this statement is true for the 2019 Expedition 4x4 Max.
I'm attaching Ford's latest published technical spec for the 2019 Expedition (as of today -- October 28, 2020), and at the top of the second page it clearly states that the final gear ratio for the 2019 4x4 Max is 3.73.
No asterisk or disclaimer about that gear ratio only coming w/ HD tow package for the 2019 4x4 Max.
Admittedly, this gets confusing when one looks at Ford's towing guide for the 2019 Expedition line up where it lists a scenario for 2019 4x4 Max w/ 3.31 max gear ratio. Not sure which document should be considered more authoritative.