We have a payload of 1603 if I recall correctly. There are six of us so with cargo we're at about 1000. Doesn't leave much for hitch weight.
Brad, I know that the towing guidelines are 900-930# max tongue-weight (with HD package), but I'm of the opinion that a WDH that is a little over-sized can help that a little bit. My camper has 620# of tongue weight and I barely notice it at all (except from an overall towing weight perspective). I got the Husky "Straight Line TS" and I oversized my weight distribution bars. Rather than get the ones rated for 600-800#, I opted for the ones that are 800-1000# ...and I'm glad I did. It's important to remember that the manufacturers rate their tongue weight empty. So, by the time you put anything in the camper in front of the trailer axles ...add a couple of batteries ...and two full propane tanks ...it's gonna be more than they state in the camper specs.
Sooo. Honestly, I can't remember if it was this thread or another, but I have stated a time or two, I don't think I personally would go over 7000# GVWR on a camper ...which translates to 700-800# of tongue weight. Driving a safe speed (65mph or less) ...I wouldn't worry too much. If you're not comfortable with it, have a your RV joint setup a tune a WDH for you. They make all the difference in the world and take 35-50% of the tongue weight off of the axles.
There are a TON of decently-sized campers that fit that mold. The last thing I've mentioned is getting tires that are better than the typical "maybe they last 40K miles" factory shoes that every vehicle manufacturer puts on their brand new cars. I will be upgrading to the Cooper Discoverer AT3-4S in my tire size (285/45R22) probably sooner than the expected life of the factory shoes. They are rated for more weight and speed ...and are 12-ply tires. PLENTY for slightly oversized loads.
I would just add ...again ...that the key is to maintain a safe speed and be ready to slow-down to 25-45mph on steeper grades to keep trans fluid temps down outta the yellow/red zone.