So I’m getting the lights shutting off quicker than usual from time to time and also my doors don’t always lock/unlock when touching the door handle but will with the fob. This happens if I don’t drive the vehicle for a day or so. Sounds like I may have a similar issue. I keep the ASS disabled so I can’t comment on it.
I also have been having trouble with the “touch to lock/unlock” feature; it always works on the driver’s door, but it’s spotty on all the others. I also had an instance this weekend where the third row wouldn’t go up or down with the buttons at the back. All of which is easily explainable by the battery not having sufficient voltage. Which means the vehicle is doing as designed and prioritizing systems to make sure it will still start up in the morning. And for that I am happy.
Given that you have disabled ASS, I suspect it has nothing to do with that system whatsoever (I’ll admit the repeated power cycling doesn’t help, but I don’t think it’s the main culprit). I think it has more to do with the sheer volume of electronics running in this thing, even after the vehicle is shut off. This very issue is likely why many vehicles now are built with a mild hybrid system or a second battery under the back seat to help share the load of all the fancy electronic whizbangery.
But hey, if I need a new battery every 2 or 3 years, so be it. As long as the vehicle continues to function such that it never strands me, I can handle a couple Benjamin’s every 24-36 months.